Note: I wrote this particular post at the beginning of the year. Sorry for the delay, but I hope it inspires. Blessings to you all.
It’s been awhile since I have posted anything. Actually it’s been awhile since I’ve written anything (well, at least on online). Being that it is a new year with new expectations and a new outlook on life, it’s time for some changes to take place.
Now I hate to sound so cliche, being that people make their New Years resolutions around this time, but this is not necessarily my resolution for the year. I really don’t consider this to be a resolution at all. It’s more of a declaration, if you will, to myself. I declare: #5 freedom from all unnecessary drama, #4 avoid people that aren’t worth my time (meaning hypocrites, naysayers, liars, etc.), #3 getting in shape (for real this time), #2 following my intuition, and #1 putting myself first.
Once again, this is not a New Years resolution. This is something I plan to do for the rest of my life. I realized by the end of 2014 that I let my dreams, purpose, and goals fall to the way side. I put men and money over myself as well as letting life beat me down to the point I didn’t believe I could accomplish my dreams anymore. I let people talk me out of things I had a desire to do and allowed people’s opinion to dictate my life. No more! 2015 is a coming out year for me to get back to working on accomplishing my dreams and achieving my goals. “No more drama! No more pain!” as Mary J. Blige sang so beautifully. A new year = a new me. A new Toby. Smile ’cause good times are ahead.